Showing posts with label public speaking 101. Show all posts
Showing posts with label public speaking 101. Show all posts

Saturday, November 3

Making Memories

Unforgettable, that's what yooOOOou aaaaaare!

Dr. Harry Cotton of the Canadian Institute of English who is a teacher and public speaker of 30 years experience in several countries once said to me that people retain roughly 30% of a speech they hear. Do you realize what that means? If you have 5 important points to bring out, your audience will remember 1, and half of an other. Well it doesn't really work that way but you get my drift. How can you make your presentations indelible? There is a panoply of methods for giving your public speaking more "stickiness" - for sticking to memory - and in this article we will discuss a few. After all, you want to be remembered for how good your talk was and not how bad.

The Importance of a Clear Outline

In the last Public Speaking 101 article we touched on using an outline and clarifying the key points of your talk for using them as way-finders to keep you from becoming overly nervous. Doing this also helps highlight the practical value of your discussion. If the points are remarkably clear, then you increase the likelihood of your audience remembering the most valuable part of your discourse. The clear outline is your foundation, if it is complex and unwieldy the whole thing becomes unstable.

Start With a Bang!


The way you introduce yourself and the subject material has a huge impact on the success of the presentation. It can pique interest or lose the listeners. Depending on the circumstance 'making an entrance' can mean different things but there is nothing more boring than 'Ladies and gentleman thank you for attending...'. Though some ceremonious occasions call for more restrained speaking methods there is always a way to pump up an intro. Modulation of your tone of voice, gesturing, a little joke. In some settings however, you can really go wild! Blare loud music and come in doing cart wheels, drive in on a bicycle - a motor cycle too would be great - throw candy at the audience.



Now that you have their attention you must introduce your subject. Many speakers use the 'I'll tell you what I'm gonna tell you' approach. Despite the fact that I do agree with the strength of such an intro I think it is used so often in a weak way that another approach is generally best. A superior and less used approach is to speak of what will be learned and of benefit during your discourse. A series of questions also works great because it increases the level of interaction (we'll expound on interaction in a few paragraphs). 'Baiting' is another good tactic if used in a friendly manner. "In the next few minutes we are going to learn how the world works!" It creates suspense and encourages curiosity. However you decide to introduce your discussion make sure that you highlight why it's important for the audience to pay attention.

Finally, be brief! Make it short, concise and then head right into the meat of your talk. If you lag, the audience's enthusiasm for your subject will wan.

Features and Benefits

While you compose your outline, keep in mind your audience. They are a mosaic of individuals and knowing where their respective centers of interest lies will have a direct impact on the quality of your discourse. Ask yourself: 'How will the ideas that I will offer be useful to the listeners? and how will I deliver the message?'. The answers to these questions will help you trim, collate and shape your ideas. For instance, suppose you must communicate something that will be foreign to some of the crowd but very familiar to others in attendance. In that case the practical value for the former part of the audience is evident and simple but the latter part is likely to be bored hearing something they know like the back of their hand. How can you highlight the practical value of your message and make it memorable? One way would be to reinforce their conviction of the veracity of the message by pointing out some facts on the issue or somehow illustrating the exactitude of what you are saying, perhaps by demonstrating how a particular principle applies in a real-life situation. Personally I find it helps to think in a feature/benefit scheme. Your key points are the features while what the audience takes away from your discussion is the 'what's in it for me?' part, the benefits.

Adding Interactivity

If we remember only 30% of what we hear, the same is not true for what we do. When allowed to participate we retain much more. For this reason I advise that you do not talk to the audience but talk with them. Ask them questions. Request their opinion. But what if you are speaking in a formal setting before a large crowd? The potential for direct interactivity is reduced but indirect interactivity can work just as well. You can still pose queries and pause to cue the listeners to think on what you just said... You can also get their opinion by a show of hands. There are many ways to get an audience to participate, no matter the setting. Make an amusing quiz, pass out objects, make them juggle and bounce balloons (a technique I found incredibly useful for teaching) or do jumping jacks. The possibilities are numerous. Be bold and creative!

Concluding

We tend to remember the first and last thing of a speech. The introduction and the conclusion. Therefore it is judicious to end with a summary. It must be short. The audience will sense that you are wrapping up and if you take too long they will not remember the excellent points you brought out, they will remember "that guy who wouldn't shut up". Citing the features and benefits in a few sentences is good and always highlight the benefit of applying what you discussed. If someone was taking notes and only caught the conclusion of your presentation they should be able to jot down a few quick words and have the gist of it to take home and tell someone else what your presentation was about. One method I've used many times, I simply read my outline to the audience, making sure it doesn't sound like a grocery list of course.

Should you end with a bang in the same way you entered? That is a valid question. I would argue against it in most cases, especially if you are part of a series of speakers or events. Listening to a good talk requires a certain degree of energy and you don't want to exhaust your listeners. If you want the audience to remember you, then I suppose it might be appropriate in some cases. Conversely, if you want the speech to be remembered it is best not to distract from it by drawing attention to yourself. If you find a way to consolidate both interests, by all means let me know.

So let me apply my own advice here

Make sure your outline is simple and clear.
Make a dramatic entrance, introduce your subject quickly, laying out the benefits of 'staying tuned'.
While highlighting your key points also highlight the benefits.
Add interactivity.
Conclude with a summary of your 'features and benefits'.

By applying these sound principles you will see that your audience, be they interviewers, employees or a large crowd, will remember what you discuss with them and apply it with increased gusto.



Wednesday, October 10

Overcoming the Fear

In a poll researching the average American's fears, the fear of speaking in public was found to be the most common, ahead of the fear of death. It seems many would prefer dying than having to speak before an audience! This is unfortunate since the skill set required to be a good speaker can prove beneficial in many other areas such as job hunting, public relations, sales and life in general. I have accumulated over a decade of experience in public speech in a panoply of settings such as 1 on 1 cold calls, conferences of 50 to 1500 people, as a teacher, presenter and radio host and I have found public speech to be one of the most rewarding and enriching experiences in my life.

Designers often are faced with situations where they must present a concept or design proposal before a committee to "sell" the product so to speak. Designers are trained to creatively apply design principles and overcome communication challenges and though some of the designer's skills are interchangeable with those of the public speaker, many are not.

What are some of the things one can do to improve public speaking abilities? How can this knowledge be applied? To answer these questions and others and hopefully help those in need of insight on the art of oratorial communication, this blog will now regularly feature articles under the heading "public speaking 101". The articles will draw from various sources such as the large mass of materials I've read on the subject, advice bestowed on me by masters of this art and my own experience.

Our first of such features will deal with what is likely the most pressing matter. It bears the title:

Feel The Fear,
then lean into it

You hear your name called. Your already quick heartbeat quickens still. Various body parts shake and shrivel. You can not control your posture or your breathing. You feel a cold sweat and your field of vision reduces. Your mouth is parched. You know you are not about to face a firing squad but it sure feels like it!

Once you've managed to drag your semi-paralyzed body before the audience the true torture begins. Stuttering, sweating, memory loss and despite your best efforts your mouth refuses to obey your jittery brain.

What are some steps we can take to help us begin overcoming this paralyzing fear of public speech and become successful orators?

Concentrate on the Message

“You don’t have to be brilliant or perfect to succeed,” says Dr. Morton C. Orman, an expert on stress and a professional public speaker. “The essence of public speaking is this: give your audience something of value.” In other words, concentrate on the message, not on yourself or your own anxieties. It's important to remind yourself that in most cases your audience is there to hear what you have to say not judge the way you say it. This will help allay a common reason for public speech anxiety, namely the fear of embarrassment or of being judged by your audience. Lenny Laskowski, a professional speaker and trainer, reminds us that audiences tend to approach each presentation with a positive outlook. “They want you to succeed, not fail,” Laskowski says. So whenever possible, before having to speak before an audience do something that helps you get into a positive mindset. Go for a walk, play some music, read. Whatever helps you feel comfortable. Doing this will have a direct and positive effect on your presentation.

Realize that your audience is a collective. When you approach the task of speaking in public remember that it is simply a conversation between 2 individuals, you and the audience. It's just that you will be doing most of the talking. Viewing it from this angle will greatly reduce your stress.

Preparation Makes Perfect

Another very effective weapon against nervousness prior to speaking in front of an audience is acquired a long time before the actual event. That weapon is preparation. The more familiar your are with what you have to say the less worried you'll be about not saying it correctly. This means practicing your presentation several times in front of a mirror, a camera or a friend. When practicing try to set yourself up in such way that will mimic the real event. Will you be standing up? Then practice standing up. Will you be on a stage? practice on top of the stairs.

Being prepared also means avoiding overloaded presentations. Keep it simple. Reduce everything down to it's most essential structure. For instance, a 10 minute presentation should have a maximum of 3-4 points. You may think that isn't much but that gives you 2 minutes to expound on each point with 1 minute for the intro and 1 minute for the conclusion. Time flies! It is very important to chop off all the peripherals and keep them as back up. If time permits you can draw on that supplemental information. Or if your audience has questions you'll have extra info to give them. The effort required to distill your information will help clarify things in your own mind and take some of the weight off of your shoulders.

Additionally, when you believe that what you have to say is beneficial to your audience you are much better equipped to ignore your nervousness and focus on delivering your important message. I have seen many people make the mistake of writing everything down word for word and just reading it off. It makes for a dry presentation which in turn lowers the audience comfort level and increases the nervousness of the speaker. It is far better to write down key points and practice speaking in a conversational tone.

Start Out on the Right Foot

Many great speakers will include a comment in their introduction that will get a chuckle a laugh or a smile from the audience. Just a little line to set everyone at ease. Imagine that this article was me speaking in public. In my introduction I spoke of the feelings most of us feel prior to giving a speech. Did it get a smile from you? No doubt it did. Did it make you want to read more? More than likely it did. Do not underestimate the power of of laughter.

Conclusion: Lean Into It

If you apply the advice in the article I guarantee you will experience a steadily decreasing fear of public speaking. However, being a little nervous isn't a sign of weakness. In fact, a certain degree of nervousness is good for you and your presentation. Why is that? Because a measure of nervousness reflects modesty, which will help keep you from becoming overconfident. Many athletes, musicians, and actors feel that a little nervous energy actually makes them perform better, and the same can be true of public speakers. So concentrate on the message by becoming very familiar with it, prepare yourself extensively and practice your presentation several times and finally, keep it light and have a sense of humor about the whole thing. You will still feel the fear but you will be equipped to lean into it with confidence.